The wide world of sex and intimacy is diverse. Sex isn’t just one thing, it’s a whole range of things.

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Let’s get down to business.

What are the types of sex that someone might explore? And what are some of the misconceptions or myths that we might have picked up about them?

Masturbation

Handjobs and fingering

Penis-in-vagina sex

Anal or butt play

Oral Sex

Frotting

Scissoring

Sex Toys

Touching and ‘Outercourse’

Abstinence

<aside> 💡 Reflection What are some myths about sex that have influenced you in your life?

• Penis-in-vagina sex is the ‘main event’ for everyone, and should be enough to get someone to orgasm
• It’s normal for penis-in-vagina sex to hurt for women
• If a woman can’t get wet, it means she is not turned on
• Everyone should always orgasm during sex
• If you have to pause or slow down, that means that you are doing something wrong
• Men want sex more than women
• Men just can’t help themselves, and are always ready for sex
• Sex is (and should be) a part of everyone’s life </aside>

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